Graduation, September 27, 2013

Friday the 27^th arrived bright and sunny.  It was the event our second year students had looked forward to for so long….graduation.   On Thursday, they all went to town to various hair salons to have their hair done.  All but one student had extensions added to their short hair.  Magreth decided to go with a short, straight wig instead.  They came out of the dorm dressed in their caps and gowns with slacks underneath and high heels.  With their long hair and makeup they looked amazing.

After Tom brought the MC with his amplifier and speakers, the electricity went out.  Fortunately, the people from Finland, who live across the road, have a generator, which we borrowed. 

Esther explains how to make fresh juice.

Guests began arriving around 9:30 am, but the celebration did not get underway until 11.  The graduates processed out waving handkerchiefs, preceded by Mama Mdemu and followed by the staff and first year students.  The first item on the agenda was a review of all of the topics learned during their time here.  Each student talked about one item ranging from preparing food, formula, and juice to what one should look for when washing a child…head to toe.  They all did a great job explaining their assigned topic.

Now second year students sing their goodbye. 

During the celebration, the graduates sang several songs and presented a short play of how an abandoned child arrives at the home.  The skit brought much laughter to all because of the humorous acting skills of the students.  Along with the graduates, the now second year students sang songs saying goodbye to their graduating sisters.  Also, the choir from the Blind School sang several songs.  It was a very enjoyable time and it went by so quickly.

Fatuma receives her certificate.

                       Speeches were followed by the presentation of the certificates to each student.  Some students had tears, but most had huge smiles.  It was so great to be there to watch them finish this long process.  Tom and I talked about how next year’s graduation will be the end of our time here. 

After the ceremony, lunch was served and the students sat with their families to enjoy the food picnic style.  Several professional photographers were on hand to take pictures and offer them for sale at the end of the day.  The most touching photos were the ones where the graduates posed with some of the older children.  They will miss these children so much and we will miss them.

ICH Graduates, Class of 2013

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Visitors from Home

The day after we arrived back in Tanzania, we drove to Tanga to meet a group from our home congregation, St John’s Lutheran Church in Philadelphia.  The Lutheran Church worldwide has a program connecting synods around the world as partners.  Southeastern Pennsylvania Synod is partnered with the North Eastern Diocese of the ELCT.  Our congregation is partnered with Kana Lutheran Parish in Tanga, a small city on the Indian Ocean.  This partnership is how we came to be here in Irente.

In Tanga, we enjoyed the fellowship of our friends and visited Kana and it’s members.  Our pastor preached at the Sunday services and led a Bible study group in a discussion of disciples of God, especially those called by God, who at first objected to God’s call.  We visited a small sub-parish for worship on Sunday, where they held a fund-raiser to be able to complete the walls of the church and install a door. 

On Monday morning, we visited a sewing school, which is a project of Kana.  The school teaches young women to become seamstresses and tailors in order to provide them with a living or opportunity to open their own small shop.  These students are young women (and a few older ones) who pay a small tuition to attend the school.  The sewing machines are the treadle style and there are far more students than machines.  We were very warmly welcomed and got to see some of the clothing they were making.

Late Monday morning, we traveled to Irente.  Pastor Tricia and her husband David, rode in our car and the others were in the Kana vehicle.  We wished we could have seen all of their faces as we went the last 30 km up into the mountains from Mombo to Lushoto.  The road is narrow and steep with no guardrails and hairpin curves.  One person told us they rode most of the way with their eyes closed.  We remember that feeling!

At Irente, we were very warmly welcomed by the staff and students of the children’s home.  They greeted us all with bouquets of flowers and the singing of “Karibu Wageni Wetu” (Welcome our Visitors). 

The group stayed at the hostel at the home, but we had all of our meals together at our home.  Veronica did all of the cooking and arranged for a friend to help her while our group was there.  Catherine did most of the laundry and helped with cooking prep work.  I believe everyone enjoyed their meals, since we have had several requests for recipes from Veronica.

The group consisted of our pastor, four teachers, and a CPA.  Everyone got busy right away with various projects.  Mary and Rochelle worked with the school-aged children who were home on holiday.  The kids learned some new songs, made “books” about themselves, read stories and did a lot of math.

Don, David, and Vickie worked painting the kitchen at the home.  St John’s raised money in order to repair the walls and ceiling (which was starting to fall down because of roof leaks).  The new ceiling and plaster- work were done by some fundis (skilled workers) before we arrived.  The kitchen is now a beautiful, sunny yellow color.  It is a wonderful room to work in now.  St John’s also raised money to construct a protective awning so the students can walk from the prep kitchen to the cooking room without getting wet.  They also donated money for the purchase of two new tables and chairs for the dining room.  With these, all of the students can eat together in the dining room.

Pastor Tricia worked diligently in the shamba (vegetable garden) with the students.  Using a jembe (hoe), she dug planting beds until she had blisters on her hands.  She also enjoyed time for conversation with the students while they worked.  They really were impressed with pastor and how hard she worked. 

Besides painting, Vicki joined the students with all of the work they do everyday:  washing dishes, babies, and clothes (by hand), hanging laundry, and helping with food preparation. 

It was a wonderful time for Tom and I.  We enjoyed having friends from home with us.  They lived our life for a short time, complete with power outages, internet disruption, bucket showers, and for some, Eastern toilets.  We visited the market and they did some shopping.  We attended the early service at Irente Lutheran Church together.  We enjoyed a lively game of “Nacho Loco” and had some meaningful Bible study and conversations.

The visit was over too soon.  They traveled from Irente to Arusha on Sunday afternoon.  There they were to visit some schools through the Mwangaza Education program of the ELCT.  And of course, they concluded their trip with two days at the national parks at Ngorongoro Crater and Tarangire.

We enjoyed their visit so much and wish others could come to see how great, but different, life here is.  We say, “Karibu tena” (welcome again) to our friends, and also we welcome you to join us too!

ELCA Summer Mission Gathering

While in the states, we had the pleasure of traveling to Chicago and then to Carthage College in Kenosha, Wisconsin to attend the ELCA’s Summer Mission Conference. 

We drove from Philadelphia to Kenosha and back in order to enjoy seeing some of the country.  We especially enjoyed the hills of Western Pennsylvania and the farm country of Indiana.  It was also a wonderful time to talk about our visit home and our plans for the upcoming year in Tanzania. 

Carthage is a Lutheran college located on the shore of Lake Michigan.  The campus is beautiful.  There we joined with 128 mission personnel, who serve all around the world, and staff of Global Missions.  We enjoyed time of worship, learning, and fellowship over five days.

We had attended the conference in 2011 before we came to Tanzania.  On our return this year, we were able to reconnect with friends from our cultural training in Toronto.   We also had time to catch up with others we met before and also new people heading out for the first time.

The SMC is a wonderful chance for people serving God in many places to refresh and recharge.  The ELCA Global Mission staff did a great job organizing and conducting this event.  I believe everyone there left with a greater sense of God’s love and why they are doing what they do.

Some of the places represented were: China, Lithuania, Tanzania, Sierra Leone, Slovakia, Argentina, Peru, Mexico, Hong Kong, Malaysia, Egypt, Uruguay, and Japan.

Our visit home

On June 24^th, we left from Kilimanjaro Airport for a visit home.  The first two parts of our trip were on Qatar Airlines by way of Doha, Qatar and Frankfurt, Germany.  The final leg was on US Air from Frankfurt to Philadelphia.  Because of our almost 13 hours in layovers, we saved half the cost of the trip.  To us, this was well worth it and also gave us a chance to see Kenya, Somalia, Yemen, Saudi Arabia, and Bahrain out the plane windows.  We have never seen so much sand in our lives! 

Qatar Airport is very nice, with lots of shopping and two cordoned off areas to nap in lounge chairs.  There is even a men’s mosque and a women’s mosque in it.  Most of the people working in the airport are from somewhere else…..India, Korea, the Philippines and probably many other places.  The departures board listed flights to places we never heard of. 

We were so happy to reach Philadelphia and be back on US soil.  Of course, there was still a bit of culture shock with all of the traffic, sights and sounds of Philly.

The high points of our trip were spending time with our family and friends and being home for the Fourth of July.  Anyone who has not enjoyed the down home America experience of July 4^th in Riverton, NJ just doesn’t know what they are missing!

When we came home in November, we did not get to see everyone we wanted to.  This time, we did much better.  We enjoyed many meals out with friends and family, and visits at their homes.  It was a great chance to re-connect with those we miss so much when we are here. 

We enjoyed being at our home congregation, St John’s Lutheran Church in the Mayfair section of Philadelphia.  It was wonderful to hear the Word in English and to receive Holy Communion with our brothers and sisters there. 

July 14^th we went to speak at August Lutheran Church in Trappe, PA.  Augustus was organized in 1730  and was the church of Henry Muhlenburg, first Lutheran pastor in America.  During summer months, they worship in the old building, which was built ibetween 1743 and 1745.  It was incredible to stand in the place where Muhlenburg stood so many years ago.  It was very nice meeting the people of Augustus, whose mission includes care of such a remarkable piece of history.

Another high point was a day spent at Hospitality Creek Campground in Monroe Township, NJ.   We had a trailer there before we came here and loved going there most weekends during the camping season.  We spent the day with two of our children and their spouses and four of our grandchildren.  We played in the lake, pool and the children’s activity pool.  We also had a chance to visit with friends at the campground.

Also, while we were in America, we attended the Summer Missionary Conference of the ELCA held in Kenosha, Wisconsin.  We decided to drive there in order to see some of the country (and to save some money, too).  The trip was beautiful and we also enjoyed a couple of days in Chicago before the conference.  We will write more about this in a separate blog posting.

All in all, our visit was great.  It gave us so many wonderful memories to think back on now that we are here again in Irente.  We were so warmly welcomed when we returned.  When we arrived at our house, we were greeted with bouquets of flowers and songs of welcome.  No one could ask for a better reception.

We thank God for the opportunity to be in America and for a safe return to Tanzania.

Violet and KCMC

On May 21^st we took Violet, a 10 month-old little girl, to KCMC for back surgery.  KCMC is Kilimanjaro Christian Medical Center, one of the best hospitals in Tanzania.  When we brought her there a few weeks before they did an MRI on a cyst or tumor at the base of her spine.  She had been referred to KCMC by the doctors at Lushoto Hospital.  They had x-rayed her back and said she would probably need surgery.  At KCMC the surgeon said to bring her on the 21^st and her surgery would be done on the 22^nd.  He expected that she would be released five days later.

Our drive to Moshi took six hours instead of the usual five because of road construction.  Here when the road is being repaved, they construct a temporary dirt road alongside for traffic to get by.  One of the three “diversions” was 20 kilometers long! 

At admissions, the doctor said they were behind in their schedule and probably wouldn't be able to do the surgery until early the next week.  He wanted us to go home and bring her back then.  After almost 4 hours of waiting and talking, they agreed to keep Violet for her pre-surgical testing and then decided to let her stay.  Because of the cost of diesel and the wear and tear on the car and Tom, we decided it was better, safer, and cheaper to stay in Arusha while we waited.  The doctor said Violet’s surgery would be perhaps on Monday, but definitely on Tuesday.  He also said that since we have two RN’s on staff, she could leave two days afterward instead of the usual five.

We checked in to Ilboru Safari Lodge in Arusha, where we get a great rate since we were here for an ELCA Mission Conference in March. They also have wonderful food and a big pool.  We had some things to do in Arusha, including pricing out some medical equipment that a Swedish group want to donate to the home.   So it seemed like a good plan.  Of course, things here never go as planned.  We should be used to this by now.

Violet, Mama Upendo, and one of our students, Felista, stayed in the children’s surgical ward.  There are 14 beds in the ward.  Each child/baby sleeps in a regular hospital with a mama or someone responsible for their care.  The mamas cook the food for themselves and their child and bring their own linens. Whenever we felt tired of our stay at Ilboru, we thought about Upendo and Felista for a reality check.  We said we were “trapped in Paradise”.

We visited KCMC several times, to bring food and to allow Mama Upendo and Felista a break from the ward.  The time seemed to drag on forever.

Finally on Thursday, May 30^th, we had a text message from Upendo that Violet had been taken to surgery.  Later in the day, we received a text saying Violet was back in the ward and “Anaendelea vizuri.  This is the usual reply for someone's health.  "She continues well".  Thanks be to God.  

When we visited on the 31st, we were told that she would probably be released on Monday or Tuesday, two weeks after she was admitted.  We had thought that it was smarter and cheaper to stay in Arusha, but who would have thought we would be there so long.

On Monday, June 3rd, we got to the hospital and Violet was smiling and cheery as usual. The doctor came to check her at around 10 am and said she could go home after the drain and IV were removed.  The nurse came and removed them at around noon.  Mama Upendo went to the cashier's to pay the bill.  Unfortunately, they were closed for lunch so she had to wait and go back after 1 pm.  By the time the bill was paid it was too late to drive back to Lushoto in daylight.  

As we drove away from the hospital, Mama Upendo said with a bit of sarcasm in her voice, "Kwaheri KCMC".  (goodbye KCMC)  We all laughed and I asked her if she felt like she was let out of jail.  She had been there for a total of 14 days with only 4 of them since Violet's surgery, away from her own three children and husband

Violet

One of the biggest problems here is that we often lose things in translation, or just don't understand.  It turned out Violet's surgery was for spina bifida!  I was very sure that when the ultrasound was done, the doctor had said it was not spina bifida.  

Since it was so late in the day, we stayed at Uhuru Lutheran Hostel for the night.  It is only a few miles from the hospital.  We enjoyed a lunch/dinner at about 4:30 and slept soundly.  Tom asked for and got a reduced rate because of the circumstances.  

After breakfast the next morning, we traveled about six and a half hours home.  Violet was wonderful on the way, sleeping a lot of the time.  We had brought a car seat from the home with us to support her back.  For her, the trip in the car was far better than an eight-hour ride in a crowded bus. 

For those of you who knew about Violet’s surgery at the time, we thank you for your prayers and emails of concern.  The picture attached was taken after we returned to Irente.  Violet is now starting to walk with someone holding her hands or holding on to furniture.  When she sees us, we get the most wonderful smiles from her.   (but unfortunately, not in this picture)